Bob’s perspective…

I have spent the last week getting readjusted to the Pacific time zone, driving on the right side of the street, and shoveling snow after a wonderful and exciting month in Kenya with Reverend Connie and her husband Patrick.  I would like to share several observations that I hope would be helpful in your understanding and continued support of Rev. Connie in her efforts to introduce New Thought concepts to Kenya and to one day establish a Center for Spiritual Living.

The first and possibly the most important of these observations is that I found the people of the country to be positive and optimistic about their life and the future.  I was fortunate to have had the opportunity to meet quite a few people and was always received warmly and with good will and had some insightful discussions.  As we know there is widespread poverty across the country and much corruption in the government.  However, the general theme of the people to whom I spoke was that these conditions were being addressed and would be dealt with in time.  I think these wonderfully warm and delightful folks would be receptive to the changes in their lives that Science of Mind offers and with time and support I am convinced Rev. Connie will be successful in helping them make these changes.

We have learned several lessons in the short time that Rev. Connie has been there attempting to get  classes underway.  The most disappointing lesson is that the large number of people who had contacted us and appeared to be solid seed groups have now all dissipated.  It is clear their motives were not genuine. This leaves Rev. Connie with just one small class and facing the prospect of building new contacts from the ground up.  This represents a staggering challenge.  Rev. Connie is a dedicated, high energy, and resourceful minister who can overcome this setback but it will take a long time even with patient and substantive support from all of us back here at home.  Another lesson relates to financial contributions and it is critical that it be addressed.  We have come to understand that unfortunately some contributions are going to questionable recipients and are not contributing to furthering the success of Rev Connie’s efforts or the growth of the Center for Spiritual Living in Kenya.  I strongly urge that all contributions if financial or in other forms be made to one central organization that can disperse them in a productive manner.  There is no accountability for contributions to individuals and it is counterproductive in that it encourages others to pander to well meaning CSL members here in the States and Canada.  Please encourage everyone to contribute to Global Services and know that the money will get to Rev. Connie and will be used in the most productive way possible.

My last observation is centered around the practical aspects of living in Kenya.  Rev. Connie and Patrick live in a very nice new, large apartment so they are more fortunate than most.  However, the electric and water systems are often subject to disruption, all laundry is done by hand, grocery markets as we know them are very expensive (goat meat and local vegetables are cheaper), the transportation system is difficult and exhausting, the weather is often very hot and the monsoons are oppressive and the list goes on.  Mastering these real circumstances and still having the time to devote to her ministry will be a challenge for Rev. Connie.  She and Patrick have done some very practical planning and are forming a spiritual safari and tour business that I think will help them deal with many of these issues and provide greater financial security. It can be a wonderful opportunity for many of our CSL members.  I encourage you to publicize throughout the CSL network, news of the opportunity for visits to their home and tours and safari adventures combined with meaningful spiritual work.  Rev. Connie will open you up to a spiritual awakening that will take your breath away and Patrick will be your guide to the mysteries of this historic land and become a friend you will never forget.  He is a joyful man and fun to be with and of course has a wealth of knowledge about the culture and history of Kenya that he is anxious to share.

I am very optimistic about what is happening in Kenya and know that it is opening up to a new awakening.  I was thrilled to be there at the beginning and look forward to watching it grow.

Bob

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Kenya Outreach…

Finding ways of imparting this philosophy in a culture as different as the one here in Kenya is an ongoing opportunity to open up to the guidance of Spirit.  I have had to learn to slow down, or as they say here poli poli (slowly, slowly).  There is a very different rhythm here, one that does not focus on the man-made concept of time but on living; and for most people here just taking care of their basic needs takes up most of their time.  By African standards I am living in luxury… the apartment complex I am in is in a new development with running water, indoor plumbing and electricity.  The running water is only cold and in the shower head there is an electric heater that heats the water as it flows out, that is when there is electricity as it goes out on a regular basis.  I have had to get a gas cooker so that I can at least cook when the power is out; which also creates a challenge keeping food fresh even though I have a fridge.  In many of the areas I go to they don’t have electricity or running water and the toilets are outhouses that many family’s share.

What continues to move me is the joy they express.  I have been teaching SOM principles, using the UCSL Virtues youth curriculum, in a local slum orphanage school to a class of 35 pre-teens and they are loving it.  One of the challenges that is stretching me as a teacher is to find examples and stories that they can relate to and I am continually having to check myself on the use of SOM lingo.   I was recently asked to teach in a new school that just started in the same slum, it has a class of 25 teenage students that have never been to school so are starting at grade one, which is bringing with it a whole new set of challenges.  I am also teaching an adult class there on Sunday afternoons and have about 6 very keen students committed to changing their lives through the transformation of their consciousness.

When I first came here I had a list of contacts from Global Services of people that had been requesting materials and guidance in the teaching and many of them have ministers mentoring them.  What I quickly came to realize is that they had a very different expectation of what I was here for, they come from a long history of missionaries coming in with financial backing for their various projects and what they wanted was the ‘cookies’.  I remember asking a fellow many years ago why he came to our Centre and he said it was because we had the best cookies!  Not only did they expect to have the teaching brought to them, they also expected to be reimbursed for their travel costs and given lunch.  Each of them are involved in projects involving the many homeless, uneducated or ill orphans; and they all wanted me to come to their various villages so that I could bring them money and supplies.  There is a prevalent belief here that if you are white you are rich, so my ongoing task is to ‘teach them how to fish, not to give them fish’.

As a result I have decided to focus my energy in Nairobi and continue to find ways to empower the people here.  I have had a couple of exciting projects come my way this week so will keep you all posted as it continues to unfold in perfect right action!

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The Honeymoon Safari

We went on a safari for our honeymoon, with our house guests, to ‘Maasai Mara’ game reserve.  It was a very unique and memorable experience for sure!  The road into Maasai Mara is only about 60km off the highway but it took us about 5 hours… the road resembles a very rocky washboard with huge craters and takes considerable skill to maneuvre.  We picked up a local Maasai man on the way and he was taking us on a shortcut on some back roads (read cattle trails!) and we got the matatu stuck…  Patrick had the time of his life – reminding me of my father who loved nothing better than getting stuck so he could get it out!

stuck matatu

Then out of the middle of nowhere came a motorbike with a couple of very strong young men – because as you can see we REALLY needed the help!  We are indeed “guided, guarded, directed, protected, sustained and maintained smack dab in the middle of Divine Intelligence”.

Honeymoon cabin

The cabin that we stayed in was overlooking a river and even had electricity and running water!

We hired a local Maasai guide to come with us on the safari in order to show us where the animals are, and it was absolutely the most incredible thing to see all of those animals in their natural environment.  We saw so many different species that we had previously only ever seen in zoos…

This picture of the lion is my favorite!

Lion cub watching us while nursing behind the safety of his mother

The leopard also had his 'kill' hanging in the tree

Hippos cooling off in the river

Giraffe

Elephants

deer

Crocodile sunning on the river bank

Baboon

The next morning, while Patrick took the matutu to get the radiator fixed (it had a hole from all the all the rough trekking!), the rest of us went to visit a traditional maasai village.

Maasai goatherding

The Maasai are cattle and goat herders, their economy almost exclusively based on their animal stock, from which they take most of their food: meat, milk, and even blood – they told me that they don’t eat vegetables as they don’t believe they are healthy!

The huts of the Maasai are built from dried cattle dung and are always constructed by the women.  They are built in a circle with a fence of sticks surrounding them. There is cow dung everywhere are the cattle are brought into the middle at night to protect them from the wild animals.

the Maasai hut they took us into

The huts are all 4 rooms – one room at the entrance that they bring the baby calves into at night, 2 bedrooms (the beds are raised on a platform with a dried cowhide for a surface) and a central area with a pit for cooking.

Bob dancing with the Maasai warriors - his hat is made from a lion skin

There are numerous traditions and ceremonies performed by Maasai men. Perhaps best known is the warrior “jumping” dance, where young Maasai morani (warrior-youth) leap into the air from a standing position, in order to demonstrate their strength and agility, in order to attract a wife, he is also required to have killed a lion.

The women make beautiful beaded jewelry - I am wearing a traditional wedding necklace

Then we walked back to the village to wait for the matatu to be finished.  We had lunch in a local cafe, we were watched by the children and eventually a couple finally came and made friends with us.

Maasai cafe - notice the big screen TV! It is a culture of blending the modern with tradition!

Making friends - When I just sit still and ignore them they will come!

And, no trip is complete without another breakdown!  We were assured that the matatu would be fine for the trip but on the way home (we took another route being assured that it was better than the one we took out – NOT!) one of the springs fell off from all the road craters!  And once again a motorbike came to our rescue and took Patrick to a local village to get a mechanic to come and fix it…  All in all a great time was had!

roadside repairs

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The WEDDING!

WOW!  Spirit is stirring once again…  One of my greatest blessings in coming to Africa has been meeting, and marrying, Patrick.  We met within a couple of days of my arriving in Nairobi when Chris (Zac’s friend) called him to help us move to our new place, his matatu run is on my route so he suggested that if I needed to go anywhere to call him and coordinate with him.  He has been so incredibly supportive, helping me adjust to this culture… teaching me Swahili, and how to cook African!

We had an international ‘Skype’ ceremony on Feb 12th (I know, now we are a valentine cliche) with the ministers that have been so much a part of the journey here participating:  Rev. Barbara Rush is the minister for Global Services and made a trip here a year before I came; Rev. Dr. Heather Clark the senior minister of Capistrano Valley Centre (and also the woman that introduced me to SOM in 1992) holds my affiliation with CSL as I am here as an outreach minister of that centre; Rev. Bob Grabowski is the ecclesiatical international minister for UCSL and his wife Rev. Barbara has been serving on the UCORS board with me for the past couple of years.

I signed up for Sykpe premium so we could group skype with 10 of us, with my family joining us as well (with it being the middle of the night for them!)… the only hitch was that the group video was not working, but they could hear each other and see Patrick and I.

'Skype' Ceremony

Saying our vows

Exchanging rings

The cake - Patrick picked it out and had it made by a local woman

Then we went with our witnesses to the government offices to have the ‘official’ certificate issued…

It's official!

Outside the government offices

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Canadian visitors…

After the uprising in Egypt I was contacted by Rev. Doni Gerain, staff minister at the Whiterock, BC centre.  One of her daughters and a friend from Vancouver were volunteering at a school in Ghana, and her other daughter had come over for a visit.  They were planning a 2 week trip to Egypt shortly after the uprising started so Doni was inquiring about the viability of them coming to Nairobi instead.  Since it is my intention to use the extra space here as a guest house I invited them to stay here.  It was such fun to have their incredible energy here.  We went on a couple of safari’s and did some sightseeing…

Emily & Keri feeding giraffe at reserve

Rev. Connie driving the matatu

Keri, Char & Emily on camel

Bottle feeding orphan elephant

Patrick & Rev. Connie with cheetah at feeding time

Patrick & girls at hut

Inquisitive monkey

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Volunteer Extraordinaire!

Bob Kleypas from Couere d’Alene came over last month as a volunteer to support me in the work I am doing here.  He has been invaluable – especially his sense of humor!  His absolute willingness to jump in and do what needs to be done has made my life here much smoother.

He had to learn many new skills; like sleeping under a mosquito net…

Bob in mosquito net

And, he is so grateful that he has a university degree in order to do book binding…         and learning to shop at the corner store….

Bob book binding

corner store

And slaughtering a goat!  Patrick took Bob to a men’s group that meets every month in which they prepare a meal together, including slaughtering 2 goats! Definitely a skill that will be used in the States…

Bob butchering goat

Men's group meeting

The goat is placed in the middle of the table on a bed of cooked/mashed banana's and eaten with your hands

One of the first trips we took was to the KPA slum school where I am teaching both an adult and childrens Science of Mind Classes.

Walking to slums - there are no roads into the area.

slum swimming - kids in a slough along the path to the slum

slum housing

praying boy in slum

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New Year’s 2011!

This year I intend to live life fully…

allowing Spirit to express Its magnificence by means of me…
expressing and experiencing deeper Love
feeling profound Joy
allowing Peace to infiltrate my entire Being
knowing Infinite Abundance
creating newness and vitality in all I choose to do
honoring all of God’s creations…

New Year’s is one of my very favourite celebrations, it represents an opportunity to consciously set my intentions and goals to create the life of my desires.  Consciously stating what we choose to create in our life is the first step to manifesting it.  We are constantly re-creating our lives based on the things to which we give attention.  And we attract into our life more of what we put attention on.

So, because this year is all about creating a new life in Kenya I thought it was particularly important so spend some time to really get clear on what I want that life to be!  It is so exciting to be in this place of discovery, newness, vitality, growth and learning.

I think it is so appropriate that the first ”celebration service” I have done in Kenya is the World Healing Meditation.  For those of you that this may be new to, it was first started in 1986 by John Randolf Price and is practised by millions of people around the globe at the same time every year – noon GMT on Dec. 31.  It was delightful to be in a time zone where I could have it at 3pm instead of 4am!  I have been either participating in or presiding over the celebration for the past 20 years and it is one of my favourite ceremonies.

Circle of Light

Honoring All Paths to the Divine

Group

I held the ceremony in my new home and about 15 people came, which was great!

In the evening we went out for dinner with Patrick’s sons and a cousin and her son.  We went to an outdoor pub where you go pick out a fish and they cook it over a pit, it is the best fish I have ever had!  And Kenya Prime Minister Raila Odinga showed up there and bought us all a beer… what fun.

Bringing in 2011

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Christmas in Kenya

It was an amazing experience to be in a totally different culture for the Christmas holiday’s.  Coming from Canada I am used to lots of snow and temperatures well below freezing… it was beautiful, sunny and 25c!

For many years now I have been resisting all the hype and commercialism that is rampant at this time of year and endeavouring to find some meaning to the season.  For me, Christmas is all about family and sharing deep connections with those that are most important.  With 4 children and 7 grandchildren my past several Christmas’ have been focused on building meaningful traditions with them.  And, this year I really missed them, although we did Skype!  What a blessing technology is.

This year it was hard to even recognize that it was the Christmas season!  The stores may have a small tree or a toy Santa, but that is all.  Given that this is a predominately Christian culture Christmas is celebrated widely but in a much simpler way… the focus is not on the presents but on the presence of love and joy, with a major focus on giving to those that don’t have anything.  It is very humbling to witness such generosity of Spirit.

The day was spent travelling to the village of Embu with Patrick to share celebration with his family.  Embu is only about 135k but took us about 5 hours to get there!    I think everyone in Nairobi was on this road…

Traffic at Thika

Traffic Jam Thika road

Pineapple field in Thika

Donkeys in Mwea

Rice Paddies in Mwea

Forests

The scenery was very interesting and varied on the way…

Christmas dinner was a traditional African feast: ugali (corn meal porridge), rice, chapati (flat bread), sukuma wiki (spinach), cabbage and of course chicken and goat; with fruit salad for desert.  All of which we ate outside under the trees…  I have discovered new utensils called fingers, you scoop the food with the chapati…

Christmas dinner

Is that a mzungu?

the children finally warmed up to me – they had never seen a white person!

After dinner Patrick and his mother took me for a tour of their farm, they are pretty much self sufficient with cows, chickens, garden and fruit trees…

Mango Tree

Banana Tree

The bird follows the cow and eats the tiny grasshoppers that are stirred up.

Note the traditional African dress!

Then on boxing day Patrick and his daughter Paulyne took me to some local areas of interest…

Connie & Patrick

Paulyne & Connie

Here we are on the nature trail at the Giraffe Center.

This reserve is right in the city of Nairobi where the animals are protected.

The giraffe eats nuggets right out of your hand.

Giraffe's

Connie With Giraffe

Turtle

Monkey

Then we went to another city park that is full of these cute monkeys, there were so many people there that they stayed up in the trees mostly.

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Visit to Kisii

Kisii

Last Monday Zac and I travelled to Kisii to visit with a couple of the groups there that are interested in learning SOM.  Kisii is about 400km from Nairobi, through absolutely stunning country.

Kisii 2

The leader of the orphanage slum school is from Kisii and since he was going there he offered to show us the way.   We took a ‘matatu’ mini-van which is an experience in itself.  Most of the trip was enjoyable and the scenery was spectacular, then the road became very curvy and a thunderstorm hit, by the time we reached Kisii I was considerably car sick… so, we had him take us to a hotel for the evening to recuperate.

Buying sugar cane

In the morning he and another fellow picked us up and we embarked on a journey into the rural countryside, which is beautiful!

Soapstone pit

Soapstone factory

Soapstone carving

Finishing products with much care and love

Display and shipping products

We visited a soap stone carving factory which is run by a self-help, fair trade group.  They took us on a tour of the facilities, showing us all of the steps involved in producing the beautiful carvings.  Everything is hand made with much care and love.  They ship items internationally if you are interested please visit their website: smolart.co.ke. We purchased a couple of beautiful items – a friendship candle, some coasters depicting local wildlife and a box to hold my rings.  I have taken most of them off and only wear a couple at a time – changes, changes…

Rev. Connie and Rev. Charles

Then, we went for lunch with a couple of the group leaders, Rev. Charles and Rev. Ben, who have both been instrumental in spreading the love of our wonderful teaching.  They are looking forward to starting classes there, so it looks like I will be in Nairobi one week and then Kisii one week in order to meet the demands for the teaching here.

Adult learning group

We finished the tour by visiting an adult learning group, they have classes in reading, writing and math, as well the women are learning basic skills in dressmaking as a way to support themselves and their families.  They were so welcoming and are looking forward to having SOM classes.

We decided to come home by bus (thinking that would be better for the motion sickness) only to discover that they pack you in like sardines – along with chickens and who only knows what!  And it stops at every little village along the way…  we ended up arriving back in Nairobi at 10pm.  Luckily my friend Patrick was able to pick us up and take us home, as the matatus don’t run at night and the taxis are very expensive after dark.

All in all another great adventure!

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Started work!

I made my first foray into the slums of Nairobi the other day when Zac & I went to visit one of my contacts here that runs an orphange school.  The school was started by a man from Kisii (a town about 4 hours from here) and there are 151 students with 10 teachers.  The students range in age from 2 1/2 years to 10 years, although there a couple of older children as well.  over 1/3 of them are full orphans being supported by other family members, 1/3 have one parent, and the remaining 1/3 are disadvantaged by being from very poor families.  It was quite an experience! to say the least.  They knew we were coming and prepared for us by having several classes perform songs or skits for us.  The kids loved it that we were there and were very welcoming.  One of the skits was mostly in Swahili, but they did parts of it in English so we could get the gist of it, it was about a single mother having challenges with her children and she was teaching them about HIV and AIDS and the risks they face! this was presented to the whole school – little children!  This is their reality.

School office

Then we met with several of the teachers and school committee members who wanted to enlist my help.  The leader (his name is Geoffrey) and the secretary (George) were introduced to SOM about 2 years ago and  they have asked me to come there to offer a class for any of the adults that would like to participate, and also to come once a week to offer counselling for the women, as well as teaching a class in SOM to the children on a regular basis.  They learn English in the school as well, so that will be helpful.  The teachers and committee members come from various backgrounds, some Muslim, some Christian, so it should be interesting.  The school closed today for the month of December so i will start there in January.

Performing in assembly room

They start at school with something called prep at 6:30am and go to 5pm, they break for lunch in the afternoon and those that have homes in the area go home for lunch, but many stay at the school and are fed there. The school is a couple of rows of tin sheds with cardboard walls and dirt floors, when it rains the mud runs into the rooms.  As you can see the children mostly wear uniforms but most of them are really rags.

In school yard

After we met the children we went on a tour of the slum to see the lot that the school has purchased and is putting up their own classrooms as they can, currently they are renting the space they are in.  They have put up 2 classrooms so far – also tin structures, with dirt floors and cardboard walls.  The desks are made out of planks of wood that anywhere from 4 – 6 students per desk.  The kids loved Zac and were hanging all over him, they want him to go and play football with them.

Water source

The living conditions are very poor, mostly tin shacks, row on row on row of them.  Most families live in a shack about 8 X 8, dirt floors and the toilets just holes in the ground.  They cook mostly outside with coal.  This picture is the water source, they pump the water up through the pipes on the ground.

They are very excited to start classes there and one of the women asked if anyone can come – she has a friend that does not read or write or speak English but would like to come to class!  I am trying to come up with a creative way for that to happen.  I will be using a translator during class and I thought that perhaps the translator could also help with the reading, perhaps have them record the reading… if you have any suggestions please let me know…  I did purchase a digital recorder, one of the issues may be that they wouldn’t have anything to play the recording on!

Rev. Connie with baby

I even got to hold some babies!  Made my day…

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